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Why Siblings Donโt Talk About It
(Until Weโre With Other Siblings) Last month, during the sibling roundtable conversation we posted, something happened that always happens when siblings gather. The tone shifted. Shoulders dropped.Voices softened.There was laughter โ the kind that only comes when you donโt have to explain the backstory. And I was reminded: Siblings donโt usually talk about it. Atโฆ
Informal Caregiving: The Role I Didnโt Know I Had
When I first heard the term informal caregiver, I paused. It wasnโt in a sibling space.It wasnโt in a family systems conversation.It wasnโt even in an OT lecture. And when the role was described โ spouses, aging parents, adult children โ Siblings werenโt mentioned. I remember thinking: Wait. What about us? The Invisible Role Worldโฆ
Accepting Help
Traveling alone in Thailand, I noticed something uncomfortable. The guides carried things.They navigated.They made sure I crossed busy streets safely.Hotel staff walked me out at night.They checked transportation.They made sure I arrived back safely. And my first instinct? โIโve got it.โ Not because I didnโt appreciate them.But because receiving help feltโฆ foreign. As siblings โโฆ






If you’re on SSI or SSDI you get free healthcare BUT often you have to wait even longer to get authorizations in some cases. Even though social security is a federal agency the state doles out the medical insurance. In California it was called Medical-Cal.
For those that believe the agencies are consistent.. good luck.