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When Penny Said “I Know You”
My dad’s sister Penny had limited speech. Most people couldn’t understand much of what she said. But there was one phrase she had down cold โ one phrase that was perfectly clear every single time. “I know you.” It didn’t matter if she’d just met you or known you for decades. Penny greeted everyone theโฆ
When Your Sibling’s Needs Are High, Your Mental Health Needs Are Too
There’s a version of the sibling experience that doesn’t get talked about enough. Not the general “it was complicated growing up” version. The one where your sibling had significant behavioral challenges โ meltdowns, aggression, self-injury โ or serious medical needs that meant hospitalizations, crisis calls, and a household that was always one bad day awayโฆ
I’m Doing Motherhood…Again
Curdled milk. Poop under my fingernails. Snot on the cuff of my sleeve.Anticipating every need. Analyzing every cry, shout, and scream.Cutting up food. Changing outfits. Dosing medicines. Reading the same stories over and over. Filling the time. Somehow, surviving. Iโm doing thisโฆagain. When I first considered having my own children, I thought I had itโฆ






If you’re on SSI or SSDI you get free healthcare BUT often you have to wait even longer to get authorizations in some cases. Even though social security is a federal agency the state doles out the medical insurance. In California it was called Medical-Cal.
For those that believe the agencies are consistent.. good luck.