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Informal Caregiving: The Role I Didnโt Know I Had
When I first heard the term informal caregiver, I paused. It wasnโt in a sibling space.It wasnโt in a family systems conversation.It wasnโt even in an OT lecture. And when the role was described โ spouses, aging parents, adult children โ Siblings werenโt mentioned. I remember thinking: Wait. What about us? The Invisible Role Worldโฆ
Accepting Help
Traveling alone in Thailand, I noticed something uncomfortable. The guides carried things.They navigated.They made sure I crossed busy streets safely.Hotel staff walked me out at night.They checked transportation.They made sure I arrived back safely. And my first instinct? โIโve got it.โ Not because I didnโt appreciate them.But because receiving help feltโฆ foreign. As siblings โโฆ
Everything Is Connectedโand Thatโs Why Iโm Writing More
People often ask what connects my work in occupational therapy, yoga therapy, chronic illness, disability, and sibling support. The answer is simple: real life doesnโt live in silos. Regulation doesnโt stop at the nervous system.Identity doesnโt stop at diagnosis.And sibling experiences donโt end in childhood. Over time, I realized I needed a space to writeโฆ






If you’re on SSI or SSDI you get free healthcare BUT often you have to wait even longer to get authorizations in some cases. Even though social security is a federal agency the state doles out the medical insurance. In California it was called Medical-Cal.
For those that believe the agencies are consistent.. good luck.