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Why Siblings Donโ€™t Talk About It

(Until Weโ€™re With Other Siblings) Last month, during the sibling roundtable conversation we posted, something happened that always happens when siblings gather. The tone shifted. Shoulders dropped.Voices softened.There was laughter โ€” the kind that only comes when you donโ€™t have to explain the backstory. And I was reminded: Siblings donโ€™t usually talk about it. Atโ€ฆ

Informal Caregiving: The Role I Didnโ€™t Know I Had

When I first heard the term informal caregiver, I paused. It wasnโ€™t in a sibling space.It wasnโ€™t in a family systems conversation.It wasnโ€™t even in an OT lecture. And when the role was described โ€” spouses, aging parents, adult children โ€” Siblings werenโ€™t mentioned. I remember thinking: Wait. What about us? The Invisible Role Worldโ€ฆ

Accepting Help

Traveling alone in Thailand, I noticed something uncomfortable. The guides carried things.They navigated.They made sure I crossed busy streets safely.Hotel staff walked me out at night.They checked transportation.They made sure I arrived back safely. And my first instinct? โ€œIโ€™ve got it.โ€ Not because I didnโ€™t appreciate them.But because receiving help feltโ€ฆ foreign. As siblings โ€”โ€ฆ


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  1. If you’re on SSI or SSDI you get free healthcare BUT often you have to wait even longer to get authorizations in some cases. Even though social security is a federal agency the state doles out the medical insurance. In California it was called Medical-Cal.
    For those that believe the agencies are consistent.. good luck.

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