Ok. My brother falls in the "very few can do nothing" category I guess. Once again, so many things here. Disability is a broad category. I live in the land of developmental disabilities which is different that medical disability, disability caused by accidents, cancer, etc. There are always going to be examples of how someone cheated the system or lied to get disability.
This blog post is about the ACE studies and limitations when it comes to brothers and sisters that have a sibling with a disability.
This post is about sibling traits.
This post is about recognizing certain behaviors as grief when the person is unable to speak.
This blog post questions why we are so quick to pass judgement on to others.